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Uncultured

By: Daniella Mestyanek Young
Narrated by: Daniella Mestyanek Young
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Summary

"It’s a dark story that forced me to think more expansively about what constitutes a cult." —The New York Times' Ernesto Londoño

"Although this is Mestyanek Young’s first time narrating, listeners will appreciate hearing this deeply personal story told by the author herself. Share with fans of Tara Westover’s Educated and Deborah Feldman’s Unorthodox. Memoir readers will want to check this one out." —
Library Journal

"A painful and propulsive memoir delivered in the honest tones of a woman who didn’t always think she’d live to tell her story." —The
New York Times

This program is read by the author.


In the vein of
Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome.

Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in the religious cult The Children of God, also known as The Family, as the daughter of high-ranking members. Her great-grandmother donated land for one of The Family’s first communes in Texas. Her mother, at thirteen, was forced to marry the leader and served as his secretary for many years. Beholden to The Family’s strict rules, Daniella suffers physical, emotional, and sexual abusemasked as godly discipline and divine loveand is forbidden from getting a traditional education.

At fifteen years old, fed up with The Family and determined to build a better and freer life for herself, Daniella escapes to Texas. There, she bravely enrolls herself in high school and excels, later graduating as valedictorian of her college class, then electing to join the military to begin a career as an intelligence officer, where she believes she will finally belong.

But she soon learns that her new worldsurrounded by men on the sands of Afghanistanlooks remarkably similar to the one she desperately tried to leave behind.

Told in a beautiful, propulsive voice and with clear-eyed honesty, Uncultured explores the dangers unleashed when harmful group mentality goes unrecognized, and is emblematic of the many ways women have to contort themselves to survive.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.

©2022 Daniella Mestyanek Young (P)2022 Macmillan Audio
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Critic reviews

"A tremendous story of grit and determination." —Julia Scheeres, New York Times bestselling author of Jesus Land

"Mestyanek Young searingly captures the fear and intensity that were her constant companions in the Children of God, and she draws smart parallels between the dogmatic 'indoctrination' she encountered in both the cult and the Army . . . Readers won’t be able to put down this harrowing and enthralling memoir." —Publishers Weekly (starred)

"Daniella Mestyanek Young’s searing memoir elegantly and intricately intertwines the worlds of religious cult and military, brilliantly displaying their similarities in a way that is as undeniable as it is disturbing. It is a brutal, necessary look at the inherent ways institutions attempt to confine women to limiting roles. Ultimately, it’s a story of resilience and Mestyanek Young’s ability to place one boot in front of the other in the face of the unimaginable." —Ryan Leigh Dostie, author of Formation and US Army veteran

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Fiercely honest

Blown away by this story. Couldn’t stop listening…

Highly highly recommend to anyone, no matter what your background

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Danielle’s resilience.

Very well written story. Sorry that you went through this. Thank you for sharing your story.

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Utterly Incredible

Absolutely sobbing after finishing this book. Beyond the fact that the author has lived an incrsdible life, her writing is beautiful, and her voice is eloquent and soothing. Astounded that this doesn't have more raving reviews yet. The feminist arc is so incredible. Just all of it. The heart and thoughts in this book are stunning. You should buy it. You just should.

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A unique life, powerfully told

Clearly an amazing woman who has not only fought for survival but has the ability to make connections, observations of larger themes and threads and draw important parallels to elevate this above a simple retelling of a powerful tale.

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The brutal honesty & healing

I really enjoyed hearing the author’s own voice recounting her experience in clear, honest and brutal terms. It’s an incredible story that I simply could not put down, it made me angry, it made me cry, I cheered her on and I celebrated the author’s eventual escape and empowerment. It’s a rollercoaster and I can’t wait to read her next book

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Poignant

A very poignant book. Writing is very well structured. Loved the tone and choice of words. I am an ex Jehovah's Witness so much of tis story resonates with mine. But even if a reader has never been in a cult, it's still a very educational and inspirational book. Highly recommended.

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Beautiful and insightful

Loved this book, I can't imagine how hard it was to write and it was performed beautifully by the author, although increadly hard to hear sometimes I'm so glad she shared her story. Thank you.

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moving, poignant and hopeful

thank you Daniella for telling your story. Your humanity and love shone out above everything. I have learnt and grown from listening to your story. thank you

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