In this insightful episode, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined once again by Karen McMahon, a seasoned divorce coach and host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast. Together, they explore how personal growth and financial resilience can empower individuals during the divorce process, particularly for high-achieving executives and entrepreneurs.

Episode Highlights:

• The Role of a Divorce Coach: Karen explains how divorce coaches support clients in managing emotional turbulence, clarifying priorities, and maintaining productivity during high-stakes divorces.
• Setting Boundaries for Co-Parenting and Shared Spaces: Learn how to establish temporary shared parenting arrangements and negotiate boundaries in shared living situations to reduce conflict.
• Financial Expectations and Transparency: Discover the importance of working with financial experts to gain clarity, manage complex financial disclosures, and set realistic expectations for both parties.

Key Discussions:

• Choosing the Right Team: Karen and Ryan discuss the unique roles of attorneys, financial experts, and divorce coaches, offering guidance on selecting the best professionals for your specific needs.
• Delegating Effectively: Tips for managing time and costs during the divorce process by leveraging the expertise of your team while focusing on high-priority goals.
• Navigating Negotiations: Insights into why divorce negotiations differ from boardroom deals and how to maintain emotional intelligence, ask the right questions, and approach discussions with curiosity rather than judgment.

Practical Takeaways:

• Use B.I.F.F. for Communication: Keep messages brief, informative, firm, and friendly to avoid escalating conflicts.
• Establish Priorities: Clarify non-negotiables and areas of flexibility to streamline decision-making and negotiations.
• Pause Before Reacting: Create a buffer before responding to emotionally charged communications to avoid impulsive reactions.

Whether you’re in the early stages of divorce or navigating complex negotiations, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you stay focused and resilient. Be sure to check out Karen’s other appearances on Divorce at Altitude in Episodes 55, 119, and 143 for more expert insights.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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In this final episode of our three-part series on Marriage and Money, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to tackle: Screw Love: Are You Financially Compatible? They explore how financial alignment—or lack thereof—can significantly impact relationships and provide practical advice for bridging gaps in financial compatibility.

Episode Highlights:
- Emotional vs. Financial Compatibility: Nikki and Ryan discuss why financial compatibility is often overlooked in favor of emotional connection and why aligning money values can be a crucial factor in marital success.
- The Role of Money Stories: Building on Episode 1, the discussion delves into how deeply rooted money beliefs and habits influence compatibility and create potential conflicts in relationships.
- Debt, Risk, and Saving Styles: Learn how differing perspectives on debt, investment risk, and savings strategies can reveal compatibility gaps and how couples can work to reconcile these differences.

Key Discussions:
- Practical Tools for Financial Harmony: Nikki shares actionable strategies like financial date nights, gamifying money conversations, and using conversation prompts to foster open dialogue about finances.
- Addressing Incompatibility: The episode emphasizes the importance of honest conversations, proactive planning, and engaging financial professionals to bridge gaps and avoid long-term conflicts.
- Principle vs. Protection: A key takeaway is distinguishing between issues of principle (personal preferences) and protection (threats to financial stability) to help prioritize and resolve money disagreements effectively.

Takeaways for Couples:
- Start Conversations Early: Dating, engaged, or married, proactively discussing financial goals, habits, and expectations can strengthen your relationship.
- Explore Compatibility: Tools like financial quizzes or working with financial strategists can help identify areas of alignment and differences.
- Don’t Ignore Red Flags: Address financial red flags early, and don’t be afraid to seek external support from professionals or financial therapists to navigate challenges.

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What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Podcast Description:

Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Divorce at Altitude! In this episode, co-host Ryan Kalamaya continues the three-part series on marriage and money, diving into the compelling topic of why prenuptial agreements aren't popular enough. Joining him again is Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The Firm Approach.

With over 20 years of financial expertise, Nikki offers valuable insights into the stigma surrounding prenups and why they can be an essential tool for couples to establish trust, financial transparency, and security before saying “I do.”

Episode Highlights:

• The Stigma Around Prenuptial Agreements: Nikki discusses societal norms that paint prenups as unromantic or pessimistic, and how reframing them as a foundation of trust can change perspectives.
• Benefits of a Prenup: Learn why going through the process of creating a prenup—whether or not you ultimately sign one—can foster open conversations about money, protect assets, and minimize conflict in the event of a divorce.
• Prenups and Modern Relationships: How shifting demographics, such as delayed marriages and the rise of female breadwinners, make prenups more relevant than ever.
• Financial Transparency and Communication: The importance of aligning on financial values, understanding your partner’s money story, and how these discussions can strengthen a marriage.

Key Discussions:

• The Myths Around Prenups: Nikki addresses misconceptions, including the false notion that signing a prenup increases the likelihood of divorce.
• Navigating Financial Insecurity: Tips for stay-at-home spouses, breadwinners, and couples to understand their financial landscape before and during marriage.
• Financial Planning Beyond Divorce: Nikki shares advice on building a strong financial foundation after divorce and preparing for future partnerships, including the role of cohabitation agreements.

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Thank you for tuning in to Divorce at Altitude. Stay with us for the final episode in this series, where we’ll tackle the question: “Screw Love: Are You Financially Compatible?” Don't miss it!

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Podcast Description:

Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your trusted resource for navigating Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, they dive into topics related to divorce, co-parenting, and relationships, offering practical insights and expert advice.

In this episode, Ryan is joined by Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to kick off a three-part series on Marriage and Money. The first topic in the series is understanding your partner’s money story a concept that can significantly impact both relationships and divorce outcomes.

Episode Highlights:

- What is a Money Story? The role of past experiences, family dynamics, and cultural influences in shaping financial habits and beliefs.
- Money Stories and Relationships: How differences in financial values and behaviors can create conflict and how understanding your partner’s perspective can strengthen your connection.
- Proactive Money Conversations: Strategies for creating a safe and productive environment to discuss finances and avoid unnecessary tension.
- Money Stories in Divorce: How understanding your spouse’s money story can lead to more empathetic and effective settlement negotiations.

Whether you’re looking to enhance your relationship or navigating a divorce, this episode offers actionable advice to help you better understand your financial dynamics.

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit. Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and custody issues in Colorado.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. In each episode, they tackle topics related to divorce and co-parenting, offering insights for navigating the complexities of family law in Colorado.

This week, Ryan and Amy break down one of the most complex aspects of family law: decision-making standards and enforcement in custody cases. They dive into the recent Colorado Court of Appeals case, In re Marriage of Humphries, which addresses the legal standards for modifying decision-making authority post-divorce. Understanding how to approach legal standards—such as the best interest vs. endangerment standards—and knowing which legal motions to file can make a significant difference in these highly charged cases.

Episode Highlights:
- Humphries Case Breakdown: Understanding how the court approaches modifying decision-making authority in high-conflict, post-divorce cases.
- Best Interest vs. Endangerment Standards: Key distinctions and how they impact the court’s decisions on parenting and custody matters.
- Legal Mechanisms & Enforcement: Exploring Colorado’s enforcement statutes and motions to address non-compliance with parenting time.
- Practical Advice: How to reduce post-divorce conflict and work towards decisions that benefit the children’s well-being, even in high-stakes situations.

If you’re navigating a post-divorce custody conflict or a family law professional, this episode provides important insights into the evolving standards in Colorado law.

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit. Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and custody issues in Colorado.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law, hosted by attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, we dive into a topic related to divorce and co-parenting to help you navigate the complexities of family law in Colorado.

In this episode, Ryan is joined by Raj Kukuraja, a high net worth divorce expert, to explore Intangible Assets in Divorce—a complex but crucial topic for many high-asset cases. Together, they unpack the concept of intangible property, including Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL), intellectual property, personal goodwill, and more, and explain how these often-overlooked assets impact property division in Colorado divorces.

Episode Highlights:
- Understanding Intangible Property: What qualifies as intangible assets and how they differ from tangible ones, with examples ranging from intellectual property to NIL and personal goodwill.
- Valuing Professional Goodwill: How the courts assess professional practices and the role of excess earnings in determining value.
- Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL): Examining the unique challenges of valuing NIL, especially in high-profile and high-net-worth divorces.
- Case Insights & Examples: From former Broncos players to celebrity endorsements, Ryan and Raj discuss real-world examples that illustrate the complexities of dividing intangible assets.

Whether you’re a business owner or simply curious about this aspect of divorce law, this episode is packed with insights to help you understand and navigate the valuation of intangible assets in Colorado divorce cases.

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit. Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and child support in Colorado.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Podcast Description:

In this "how-to" episode, Ryan dives into high-income scenarios and how they impact child support in Colorado. Using the case of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan breaks down what happens when combined incomes exceed $30,000 per month, the legal floor for child support. Drawing on the Colorado Supreme Court case of In re Marriage of Boettcher, Ryan explains how courts determine child support in high-income cases, focusing on lifestyle disparities between parents and the needs of the children.

Episode Highlights:
- Income & Child Support: How high incomes, such as Eric’s million-dollar salary, affect child support calculations.
- The Boettcher Case: Insights from the In re Marriage of Boettcher decision, establishing that the $30,000 monthly income guideline is a floor, not a cap, for child support.
- Lifestyle Considerations: The court's role in ensuring children maintain a similar lifestyle with both parents, including covering expenses like private school, vacations, and extracurricular activities.
- Disparity in Incomes: How income disparity between parents influences child support, and what courts consider when determining fair support in above-guideline situations.

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit from the insights. Be sure to follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and child support in Colorado.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, a Colorado family law podcast hosted by experienced attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Whether you're going through a divorce, considering one, or simply want to understand more about the intricacies of family law in Colorado, we’re here to help. We aim to provide practical guidance to make the process a bit easier and empower you with the insights you need.

In this episode, Ryan and Amy discuss Divorce 2.0, or what happens when someone wants to reopen a finalized divorce case. Using the hypothetical clients Eric and Melanie Wolf, they explore why some divorces get revisited and how Colorado courts handle these situations—especially when it involves undisclosed assets or changes in property value. They also break down the importance of mandatory disclosures and recent case law that impacts Colorado divorce proceedings, ensuring listeners understand why thorough documentation is crucial.

Episode Highlights:
- Mandatory Disclosures in Colorado: The vital role of Rule 16.2 in ensuring transparency and fairness during divorce.
- Divorce Remorse: What happens when one spouse seeks to reopen a case, claiming a raw deal or omitted assets.
-Case Spotlight: Lessons from Colorado cases like Hunt and Dury, which show the consequences of incomplete disclosure.
- Protecting Your Agreement: How attorneys ensure agreements are upheld by focusing on thorough, documented disclosures.

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit from these insights. Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and child support in Colorado.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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