In this episode of the Man Up podcast, Todd Boquet shares his powerful story of resilience and redemption. From his early childhood trauma of losing his mother to suicide, to his struggles with addiction and anxiety, Todd's journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. He discusses the importance of faith, family, and community in his life, and how he has transformed his pain into purpose through his work in church ministry and community service. Todd's candid reflections on vulnerability, shame, and personal growth offer valuable insights for anyone facing their own challenges. In this conversation, Todd shares his profound journey through shame, addiction, and loss, ultimately finding redemption and purpose. He reflects on the importance of self-love, the struggles of transitioning from military life to family responsibilities, and the devastating impact of addiction that led him to prison. After facing the tragic loss of his family, he discovers strength in grief and healing, leading to a renewed faith and the creation of a new family. His story is one of resilience, transformation, and the power of love and faith. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Todd's Journey 05:12 Life in California and Family Dynamics 09:28 Early Childhood Trauma and Its Impact 20:05 Struggles with Anxiety and Vulnerability 22:57 Academic Success Amidst Turmoil 29:01 The Battle with Addiction 30:25 Military Experience and Consequences 34:20 Shame and the Path to Redemption 37:11 The Weight of Shame and Self-Love 39:33 From Military to Family Life: A New Beginning 42:53 The Downward Spiral: Struggles with Addiction 47:13 Prison: A Harsh Reality Check 52:03 The Tragic Loss: A Family's Farewell 57:50 Finding Strength in Grief and Healing 01:01:43 A New Chapter: Surrendering to Faith 01:09:12 Building a New Family: Love and Redemption